But as far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with otherwise well-adjusted men casually consuming porn while masturbating. Either way it still takes two to tango, pretty sure nature has it balanced, despite religious regulation.
I think it depends on what kind of porn a man watches.
There's also a man's fear that other men will be with his woman, because it's just true that men constantly think about sex. Where would our species be without men constantly seeking to be with women, to make relationships work? I disagree that women are turned on by touch, not by what they see.
Men think about this stuff and it intrigues me to the point where the psychology of men is almost an obsession of mine. I think men are definitely turned on MORE by what they see, but I think women are definitely turned on by what they see. Kim - NO ONE ever doubted your "right" to be against porn.
Today, more than 25 Web pages present every type of X-rated fare imaginable for free 24-7-365 on everything from desktop computers to smart phones. A small fraction of men watch so much so compulsively that it a problem. But the vast majority of porn viewers are guys who enjoy a little X-rated action while masturbating. In addition, pornography celebrates men's erotic fantasies, a world where women are perpetually horny, available, enthusiastic, and happy to service men endlessly while ignoring courtship, intimacy, marriage, birth control, infection prevention, and their own sexual satisfaction. And except for the small group of compulsive porn consumers, the vast majority of men don't consider it a substitute for their lovers. Illinois State University researchers visited Internet relationship sites and collected posts by wives and girlfriends who had discovered that their men viewed porn.
Why deny yourself apple pie once you've discovered peach?Some women whose posts the Illinois researchers collected had spouses who viewed pornography daily for hours, refusing real sex, and sometimes losing their jobs.When anything sexual interferes with one's ability to work and love, that's not healthy. "The Significance of Heavy Pornography Involvement for Romantic Partners: Research and Clinical Implications," I enjoy watching and masturbating to porn, sometimes by myself and sometimes with my lovers.They often described themselves as feeling old, fat, ugly, and worthless because of their lovers' porn habits. For most men, porn represents self-soothing, a way to take a break from daily hassles by masturbating.Women often self-soothe by taking hot baths or shopping. Women's horror at the time many men spend viewing porn resembles men's incredulity at the time many women spend shopping. You have so much at home." "I just like to see what's out there." Women's Insecurities One reason women recoil from porn, Fair Oaks, California sex therapist Louanne Weston, Ph.